Russian dating holiday


29-Aug-2017 12:55

This was in 1997 and having placed my profile on several websites of Russian dating agencies introducing Russian women to foreign men, I quickly found a man I totally fell in love with and got married in 1998 (I could not get married in Russia for 8 years although it was my dream to get married and have kids since I was a little girl - this is the dream of most Russian women and girls, to get married and have a happy family - NOT to be rich and have a great career, this is very seldom what Russian women dream about.)Now, I left Russia in 1998 and I thought things could have changed there a lot since that time.

I know people in Russia have a very different lifestyle now than 12 years ago, just like lots of things changed here too! A.; the difference will be comparable to the difference between countryside and city life in your country.

" (Or "Why Russian women want to marry Australian men", or "Why Russian women want to marry English men" etc, etc).

You may ask me then why there are so many ads of Russian women seeking men abroad, on the Internet, seeking men in countries like United States, Canada, Australia and Europe - yes, this is true, but this doesn't mean Russian women WANT to leave Russia or marry western men.

Russian women want to marry good men and have a normal family and children, and it's not always possible in Russia for all of them.

There is huge demographic disproportion in Russia with only 88 men for 100 women.

Yes, most Russian women work (and were always working since the Communist Revolution in 1917), there is still plenty of male chauvinism and since men occupy most powerful positions, they don't want it changed!

I would have never even considered leaving Russia to marry a foreigner if I could meet a good man in Russia and get married to him and have a happy family. This is the fundamental difference between Russian/Eastern European women and Asian main order brides, as I see it (I may be totally wrong here, it's just my personal opinion): Asian brides consider immigration as the means to support their families and provide for their parents and siblings, and I know husbands of Asian brides have to send money on monthly basis to support the wife's family overseas.

They are modern educated women who want to have a modern family life - not more, not less.

My feeling, this is the reason why most Asian brides get married, to provide for their families.